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True Life: My Partner Has Kids, But I Have Never Met Them
The content below was sourced from real posts on the Whisper app, the largest online community where people anonymously share real thoughts and feelings. Join the community to continue the conversation today. Dating someone who has a kid can be challenging. There is now another person, or more, that's involved in your relationship and it can get complicated. It's just one more persons feelings to consider, one more schedule to work around and one more person to impress. These people haven't even met their partner's kids yet, and they already have plenty of feelings about it. Their confessions show how it feels to be in the dark about such an important component of their loved ones lives. Children are a blessing, they just really complicate dating!

You just need to say it!

1
My boyfriend and I have been together over 2 years. We live together. I’ve never met his kids since they live with their mom pretty far away. I don’t know how to tell him how badly I want to meet them

From:
Somewhere

A big step for the first encounter!

2
My boyfriend and I are planning a family vacation so his son (who I've never met) can go with us. I love kids, but his 7 year old is ADHD and Autistic. I'm terrified he won't like me.

From:
Somewhere

They aren't for everyone!

3
I hate little kids. 
My boyfriend has two that I've never met. I'm honestly postponing this for as long as I can

From:
Somewhere

13 is a tough age for sure.

4
My boyfriend has a thirteen year old daughter and I’ve never met her. I can’t help but really dislike her :/

From:
Kansas City, Missouri, US

It can be scary!

5
My boyfriend's kids aren't that much younger than me. I'm terrified they'll never accept our relationship because of that alone...hence why I haven't met them.

From:
Somewhere

Something's fishy here.

6
My bf isn't affectionate, distant and doesn't cuddle. I have accepted that. What bothers me most is we have been together for almost 3 years and I haven't met his kids.

From:
Castle Hills

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