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19 Reasons Why People Refuse To Date Someone Overweight
The content below was sourced from real posts on the Whisper app, the largest online community where people anonymously share real thoughts and feelings. Join the community to continue the conversation today. We've all got a certain set of standards when it comes to dating. Some of them can seem more shallow than others. Many would say that refusing to date someone who is overweight falls under being shallow. But many people see it as more than just a physical trait, but something tells them about the person's attitude and lifestyle. Are these reasons justified, or should they open up their minds to dating someone bigger?

Concerns about longevity...

1
I refuse to date an overweight man... sounds harsh but I want someone who will be healthy and alive through my life and our children's childhoods. I don't want someone who will die 20 years before me

From:
Aloha, Oregon, US

2
I'm shallow I don't date fat girls because they don't care of their bodies.

From:
Walnut, California, US

You want a partner who takes pride in themselves.

3
I don't date fat guys. 
Because I like a man who takes care of themselves.

From:
Colorado Springs

If you put lots of effort into losing weight, you want someone with the same drive.

4
You know why I don't date fat girls because they don't take care of themselves. I know it's tough being fat I used to 305lbs but then I did something about it!

From:
Donner

5
I admit it I won't date an overweight person. I spent a lot of time trying to get to a healthy weight. It's not that stuck up when you consider this is literally the only standard I have lookwise

From:
Watertown, Wisconsin, US

On to better things.

6
I lost weight and I'm no longer obese with a healthy BMI, and am continuing to work on my personal fitness. I refuse to date a fat person now.

From:
Adkins, Texas, US

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